Thursday, April 15, 2010
Passionate Encounters - and the lack thereof
I started thinking about it and I must admit - I have never truly had either. Chemistry perhaps, you need chemistry to make friends and lovers. But in combination with passion and lust in the bedroom? Never.
That strikes me as a little unfortunate and I can't help but feel I've missed out. I've never had that connection with someone that makes you tingle with anticipation, when you just have to have someone, raw passion, instincts taking over not caring about anything other than the here and now.
I've had the "like" and the "care for". The "just for fun" and the "feel like doing it", just not... not the passion and the chemistry in bed that I want to experience, that I imagine we all want to experience. Just being tossed around in the sack for a bit, because no one says love and lust are the same.
Then again, my friends do tell me sex is always better when you find that person you truly love, and who loves you back.
Have you ever had that lust, that passion with someone?
And would you rather have good sex with someone who is right for you in the long term, or experience raw passion with someone who is completely wrong?