Sunday, February 21, 2010

Do I miss sex?

My good friend Sleepy asked me if I don't miss having sex. He knows it's been a while, and, I'm sure, felt a need to brag about his recent exploits. Then again, chatting with a girl once, then flying halfway across the country to spend the weekend in her bed does give bragging rights.

So.. do I miss sex? How long has it been...? Since I left the city and moved out here into the middle of nowhere. I guess both yes and no;
  • No because it's been a while, first you need it, you gotta have it, then you settle into the routine of not getting it. Plus cuz of the grooming that's required...
  • Yes for the obvious reasons - you miss getting a little sumthin sumthin, I miss the excitement, the feeling, being that close to someone. Feeling a big hard... well you get the picture. Girls have needs too, and sometimes I don't quite know what to do with myself. (TMI?)

Do I miss sex? Well, I hope I'm not considered a nun quite yet. But yes, I do. I miss the excitement, the happiness and the satisfaction. But I don't miss the routine that develops in a relationship, and I don't really do one night stands. Maybe I need an FGF?


  1. i can imagne u miss it, i had that too
    if u look for it u dont find it,it comes on ya way
    and otherwise there is still good old Dino

  2. Yeah there's always Dino... haven't seem him for a while but I'm sure he'd be up for the task ;)

  3. Anonymous6:15 AM

    what's a FGF?

  4. Fucking Good Friend.
    Or friends with benefits, "special friends".. - you get the sex without the relationship.

  5. Anonymous9:38 AM

    If you probe long and hard enough, :) I think you'll discover that 99% of the male population essentially wants a FWB relationship. It's only a matter of whether or not they accept monogamy. Guys want someone they can hang out with and who isnt too demanding.

  6. Basically guys don't want girlfriends or relationships, they just want regular sex with a possibility of sleeping around? :)

    I can see that.. I guess that's where girls go wrong, we have all these feelings and stuff. Would be nice to turn that off.

    Unfortunately I can's, so I guess no FGF/FWB for me :P

  7. Anonymous3:30 AM

    I never said that! lol

    I just meant that most men see relationships differently than women and want to define them in a different way.

    Of course there are men that like to notch their bed posts and want a variety of sexual partners. There are a lot of women that want that too these days. But that's not what I'm really talking about.

    Most men I know want to meet women that are friends first. It doesn't mean they can't be monogamous. They just don't want a relationship that instantly starts with romance. There are men that want an instant romance too but that reeks of desperation and are pretty rare. I'd watch out for those.

  8. So what you're saying is guys don't want to fall in love? What's wrong with you people?? ;p

    Why does it 'reek of desperation' to want that first, rather than after a long time of being friends?

    Haven't you ever fallen for someone the first time you met them? You'd just rather be friends first and have it develop into a relationship?

  9. Fantastisk skrevet :) Må si jeg lo og kjente meg igjen.


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