I guess it might be time to say something about this now... The Guy and I started dating two years ago, and we broke up before I came to Uganda. He didn't want to lose me as a girlfriend and I didn't want to lose him as a friend, so it's not quite official yet... Facebook still says we're together, if that's anything to go by.I'm supposed to think, experience something new and see if I'll change my mind. But I won't, I know that now. I'll just have to find a way to tell him that, it doesn't seem fair to do it online - "oh btw my feelings won't change, gtg, cya!"
Might not seem very fair to put it on a blog either, but he doesn't read this - he says he doesn't and I trust him.
I just felt it was time to put thinks straight. I've been on here since long before I met him and it doesn't feel like I'm being honest with myself or anyone else when I don't tell this story, as I've told so many others.
Anybody got any idea how to break a heart without actually breaking it?
Sorry, can't help you on this one. I'm not good with breaking up with a guy gently...
ReplyDeleteits sounds a bit corky: but honesty works best for me.
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The only other advice I got was to wait till I got back and tell him face to face. That seems a little mean.
ReplyDeleteI think I have a phone call to make.