Sunday, August 30, 2009

Visiting Work

I stopped by (ex)work before leaving Bergen. Some of the girls are still there, some have moved on.

One of my former colleagues had left. She'd met a guy online and moved to another part of the country.

I started wondering... hadn't she been married? But it wasn't until I left that I remembered she'd been living with a guy I'd met a lot of times. They had a couple of teenage kids together.

I would never in a million years have thought she was the kinda person who would do something like that. Of course, I don't know what has happened the year I've been gone.

Still, I am beyond shocked right now... (and really really wishing I'd have remembered it earlier so I could have gotten the whole background story from the girls!)


Maybe those people are right - the internet is a dangerous place!

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Confession

I have a confession to make.

I've had an ulterior motive with a few of my posts the last year. The thing is, there's someone out there I've wanted to talk to, and this was the only way I really knew how to.

Right now I'm tired of waiting, and it's now or never. This guy knows who he is and I'm telling him - either you tell me what you're thinking, or I'm letting this thing go.

Chances are I'm making an ass of myself here, but I'm old enough not to care, and smart enough not to let it matter.


Here we go. It's all or nothing.

New Flatmate

She's a little tall, pretty thin, bushy hair, kinda cute and six years younger than me. (When did I get this old??)

She doesn't say much, I'm guessing confidence comes with age and apparently I'm old enough to intimidate the younger ones. Guess it gotta be a little scary, being a new student in a new city. When I moved here we were all new so that wasn't really an issue.

She seemed nice (from the six words she spoke) so hopefully things will work out with the two guys.

Wonder who will move into my room next week...

Monday, August 24, 2009

The Music and the People

Two tents, one grand piano, a motor cycle camp and horseshoes; that's a festival in a little town. I had fun, I think everybody did, and it's great that someone decides to arrange something like that.

I met a lot of people I didn't know, people I've heard of but never met, and people I've seen all my life but still don't know who are. It's a small town so everybody knows each other in one way or another - you either recognize someone but don't know their name, or the other way around.

I talked to a guy I knew as a kid (or so my parents tell me) who said he knew me as a kid too (or so his parents tell him). And another who claimed to be married while simultaneously doing his best to grab my butt and thigh for the better part of an hour, before trying to invite himself back to my [parents'] place.

At least people from my class are easy to remember (and keep their hands to themselves). Half of them I haven't seen since we finished high school six years ago and most of us left town. Others I run into almost every time I'm home. In one way you'd never have thought that many years have passed; some people are exactly the same. Others are different. You don't know who has become the angry drunk, who is a different person behind your back, and who is quieter than you remembered (or perhaps just didn't really want to talk to you).

It was fun, more people should know about this.. Maybe next year!

Guys!

I usually prefer having guys as flat mates. Guys tend to make less of a mess than girls, and they're easier to talk to. And they take way less time in the bathroom!

Then I come back here a week after the others. I share a bathroom with one guy, which was never a problem. Last night I went to brush my teeth and what did I see...

The toilet bowl is covered in shit. Literally covered. Going way up the back side of the bowl. How do you even hit that spot?? And how does it stick?

In only ten days alone, no one to see what goes on in the bathroom, he managed to do that. It has never looked anything like that when I'm around. Ever. Makes you wonder what toilets the world over look like when the women are away...

Sunday, August 23, 2009

Politics on the bus

On the bus to Bergen the guy behind me was talking on the phone and seemed to be involved with the political party Høyre, which is a conservative party on the right side in Norwegian politics.

I don't agree with too many of Høyres policies, I think I was born on the left side and have no intention of leaving. Then again, not all of those voting for this party are rich, have rich parents, and only care about lowering taxes for the wealthy and cutting in social services.

Maybe this guy was different from the majority in the party. There has to be nice people who care about everyone and not just put their own money before everything, right? Of course there are! They don't all just rely on rich parents, it would be too naive to think all of them, even this guy, are like the stereotype.

Then, from behind me a voice filters through my thoughts like a ray of sunshine, just a single ray, shining through the clouds on a rainy day;


"Dad said he would buy me an apartment in Bergen now."



Riiight...

Saturday, August 22, 2009

Car alarms again

Can anyone think of a good reason why someone would turn on their car alarm in the quietest little town around? The most dangerous thing that could happen to a car here would be... a cat crept under it. Oh no!

Still, they turn the alarm on. It goes off. For a full three minutes. The people come outside, turn it off, go inside. It starts again. This happens four times.

One thing is people are trying to sleep! (ok so I'm not one of them...)
Another is - why do they even bother turning it on?

I just don't get how it could possibly make sense for them to do that...

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Dilemma, part 3

... or not.

My barely 16 year old sister, after three days of high school, got offered a place at another school two and a half hours away.

She's moving this weekend and seemed a little shocked at the thought I might not go with her. Not quite sure when it'll be yet.

I can't believe she's growing up so fast! What's the point of staying here when no one is around? Time to move again?

Results : Age difference


Quite a few people voted for this one, and it's clear that 3-5 years between partners is the most common of these alternatives.

Admittedly, the category 15+ covers a much larger age range than 6-9 or 10-15; still, it is a little surprising to see that so many people have had a partner more than 15 years their senior. I guess that is more common the older you get.

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Dilemma, part 2

I decided to stay a few more days, to go to the music festival thingy and
see what happens.

Bergen will just have to wait a few more days!

Dare I hope it won't rain?
(please don't let me have jinxed it right now...)